When you find someone you care about, do you take the opportunity to make a commitment with them?
If you’re not in a relationship and you want one, you can make a commitment to yourself to understand why you are not in one.
Here are 7 things that keep people from committing to a relationship. Which, if any, apply to you?
1. I am afraid I may choose the wrong person.
What if I don’t really love this person?
What if there is someone better around the corner? What if I am being used or manipulated for sex, money, citizenship, etc?
What if I find out later that my p
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Here are nine reasons to love that blunt best friend even more than you already do.
1. They don’t hold back from delivering the truth.
My brother-in-law is famous (in some circles) for saying, “Facts are friendly.” But he’s wrong; facts are neutral and dispassionate. Your blunt friend should be able to deliver news sans theatrics.
2. They save you from fashion faux pas.
Are you red-green dichromatic and desperately need to know when your colors are clashing? Has your body shape altered significantly since you bought those sweet suede jeans? Do you periodically tuck your skirt back into your tights after using the toilet? Your blunt best friend will let you know that, whatever the case, you need to shape up it up, pronto.
3. Their observations can be witty and
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In the past children spoke Nigeria’s indigenous languages namely Yoruba, Igbo, and Hausa fluently and unashamedly. However, today, the complete opposite is the case. Kids can barely communication in Efik or Idoma without adding a bit of English.
The consequences of this are that many of these languages are facing extinction while some of them have gone extinct. A research that is cited by those concerned to lend credence to the import of indigenous languages is that of former Minister of education, Prof. Babs Fafunwa.
The late Prof made a case for the mother tongue as the medium of education for the first 12 years of the child’s life. Through an organized mother-tongue education program, they discovered children taught in the Yoruba language performed better.
Regardless, it has not changed
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Being an entrepreneur is not for fun or passion. You want to make money and get rich over time. This is a key reason why so many people work very hard to float and manage their own business.
Despite these laudable efforts, owning a business may probably not accrue you the desired wealth you want. As a result, these are the reasons why this may be the case.
Managing a business is expensive
Entrepreneurs know that running or managing a business is very expensive. Your business will run at a loss especially in the nurturing stage due to these expenses
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Here are seven common — yet totally overlooked marriage problems — that may be threatening your relationship, plus, expert advice to help you keep divorce out of your marriage.
1. A lack of eye contact
“When you ask most people about how they knew their partner loved them, they will often say that it was the way that person looked at them,” explains Opert. Having conversations without looking up from the phone or TV can sever that intimate connection. It may even prevent the release of phenylethylamine, a chemical that triggers feelings of romantic love, Opert says.
Try this: Set aside times for tech-free bonding. Have a cell phone-free dinner without any television background noise or vow to keep cellphones out of the bedroom.
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The benefits of physical exercise are innumerable and consistently backed by empirical evidence. According to the CDC, exercise helps maintain a healthier weight, reduces stress and anxiety, makes you feel more energetic, facilitate a healthier sleep pattern, and improves and stabilizes your mood. Not to mention, it also makes you more confident.
But the benefits of exercise are not limited to solo ventures. In fact, you can get even more benefits from exercising by working out with your significant other.
So why is a couples workout so beneficial for romantic couples and their relationship? Here are 5 benefits:
1. By planning and setting a goal, you learn how to work as a team.
Setting and achieving goals together is a good way to strengthen a partnership. You and you
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Men who batter rarely do it once, even if they are rich and famous. So if you’re in a relationship with a guy who has pushed, hit, or slapped you once, take it as a warning sign. You can expect him to do it again and again.
Here’s everything you need to know about batterers, from domestic violence experts Diann Ackard, a psychologist on the board of Break the Cycle (an organization specializing in the treatment of domestic abuse), and Candice Hopkins, director of Love is Respect (the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline).
1. Batterers have an intense need to control the women they love.
The biggest misconception about these guys is that they have “anger management” issues. They
Read More 8 Heartbreaking Reasons Why Men Beat The Women They Love
Sexual intimacy is deep and there are many ways women can feel uncomfortable.
Reasons why women are uncomfortable with sexual intimacy. The answer to this question is not simple.
Women are complex. Therefore, wouldn’t the answer to this question be complex? My intention is to simplify this answer as much as possible and bring more clarity to the dilemma many are faced with in the bedroom.
Women are just as sexual as men. We are all sexual beings. Sex and sexual expression is a normal and healthy part of being human. Sex is about the uniting of energies, a coming together.
Imagine being uncomfortable with sexual intimacy. That must be painful for a woman when she finds herself in such a situation, especially if it is with someone she dearly loves and care
Read More The 3 REAL Reasons She’s Uncomfortable Being Sexually Intimate With You
Here are four of my own reasons for doing just that.
1. It’s not the be all, end all of relationships for me.
For a long time, I thought sexual intimacy was the purpose of relationships. But, over time, I realized there was so much more to my relationships than sex.
It’s having someone to come home to at the end of the day. It’s the emotional support that gets you through tough times, and the adventures you take together.
My love for my partner didn’t rely on whether or not we had sex.
It was the late night pep talks when we were struggling, the cozy nights cuddling and drinking tea, and trying new restaurants downtown, and wandering around the farm
Read More 3 Reasons Why Sex Is The LEAST Important Part Of Your Relationship
Honesty is amongst the better policies, right up there with the No Child Left Behind Act (in theory) and just behind “Let people off the train before you start getting on it,” in terms of general value.
But we’re sensitive to too much honesty. A bowlful of sugar is the only thing that makes the medicine go down. But a reluctance to criticize our friends is a disservice. However, too much callin’ ’em like we see ’em is a bummer, too. That’s why you need your one blunt best friend to give you a lift on the straight talk express
Here are 6 reasons to love that blunt best friend even more than you already do.
1. They don’t hold back from delivering the truth.
My brother-in-law is famous (in some circles) for saying, “Facts are friendly.” But he’s wrong; facts are neutra
Read More 6 Reasons A Blunt Friend Is The BEST Friend You Can Have
There are some really good reasons to avoid dating a married man BESIDES the glaringly obvious, 100 percent completely valid moral argument.
When we shame people and use morality as a coverall, the other rationale behind why one should stay far away often get lost. It also makes the whole thing into a race to get the other person to leave their spouse to justify the whole thing.
Then people say, “it was true love, it was MEANT TO BE.”
The problem is, even IF he leaves his wife for you — whitewashing the morality/shame issue — you’re still picking wrong. That’s why it’s so important to talk about the OTHER reasons why creating a relationship with someone married is bad news. There are rational self-interest reasons WHY that married dude is a terrible choice.
And, when we’re talking a
Read More 11 Practical Reasons You Should Dump That Married Man IMMEDIATELY
We all know that masturbation feels good, but it’s about so much more than pleasure. Saving some time for self-love can make sex with our partner better by teaching us more about our body and our pleasure zones. It’s also amazing for many other reasons:
1. You get to learn about yourself.
One of the major of benefits of masturbation, besides pleasure, of course, is that women learn about their bodies and what pleases them, and are then able to share that with a partner during sexual encounters, says Dr. Emily Morse.
The more you know about your own body and pleasure, the more you can share with your sign
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4 VITAL reasons you should date multiple men at once:
1. It allows you to compare and contrast the attributes and compatibility in numerous men.
Some women instinctively know the traits and qualities they truly value in a life partner. Others learn through trial and error and heartbreak. Evaluating men with your intellect, and not your emotions, can fast track you to the right man.
2. It boosts your self-confidence and improves your dating skills.
Having the amorous attention from two (or more) men has a way of making a woman feel desired and empowered, increasing your confiden
Read More 4 CRYSTAL CLEAR Reasons Why You Should Date More Than One Guy At A Time