In a world where chivalry and courtship seem to be the stuff of history books, and men complain that they shouldn’t have to pay for dinner if women want equality — it is plain to see that we need to bring some dignity back to dating and relationships.
My belief is that there are so many mixed messages about what women want in a relationship, that we, as guys, can easily get confused. Does she want her independence? Does she want to be courted? Will she be offended if you pick up the whole bill? But then if you don’t, you never get that second date. What gives?
The truth is, gentlemen, that the basic fundamentals of courtship have remained the same over time. The idea is to set yourself apart by showing a woman that you are genuinely interested in her, and are
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here are six kinds of compliments that men would love to hear more often. Some of these I heard as requests from the men who asked me to write this article, others are things that my male clients have often mentioned they felt insecure about in their relationships, and a smaller portion have come from my personal dating history.
1. Compliments that show that you believe in him
One of the biggest things that make a guy melt is when his partner supports him and believes in him. This is one of the most consistent things that I heard from my male readers when I went to them regarding writing this artic
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There is a fact universally known about men with penises: They love them.
If you are a man, and you have a penis, then you love that penis.
You protect it, cupping it often in your hands during idle moments, adjust the positioning of your penis in your jeans almost constantly, using your penis as a litmus test by which all other men in the world are found to be inferior or superior to you.
If you are a man with a penis, then the chances are high that you spend at least a third of your day thinking about your penis and what it wants. Usually, this is just sex. Your penis, while important, is a simple creature with basic needs. All it dreams of? A warm wet hole to make its very own.
But I think you’ll find if you question most men, they all have a penis that harbors a superiority complex. They know that t
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You can never be certain someone is about to dump you, unless, of course, the person tells you. However, with that said, how many of you could predict some of your past breakups? I know I could. I felt that sick feeling in my stomach before it happened.
While I’m no psychic and I can’t predict your future, I can tell you that there are a few signs that a man might be about to dump you. If you notice these signs you can do one of three things: relax and let it unfold; ask him if that’s where’s headed (although, he may say no out of defense or uncertainty); or talk to him to see if there’s a way to salvage the relationship. You can also dump him first if you’re over him too, but if you still care about him don’t do it!!
Here’s how to tell a guy wants to break up with you.
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The following list has been compiled from the attributes of the men I have worked with and known over the last few years.
Men who are currently in relationships or married and men who have never been married. Men who are newly divorced and not in a relationship and men who have been divorced for a considerable amount of time, date often, but have not remarried or committed to another relationship. As well as, men married for the second or third time.
Here we go…
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If you really want to learn how to arouse your man and get him in the mood for amazing sex, then you need to stimulate both his body AND his mind. You’ll be glad to know that doing this is not just a case of being overtly sexual.
I’m going to show you some really subtle, fun and easy things you can do to turn him on and arouse him both mentally and physically.
1. Talking Dirty
Many people come to me wanting to learn how to talk dirty. They usually think that the best type of dirty talk is using the most outrageous, over-sexualized, nasty lines.
This is not really a great idea. Yes, being really ‘out there‘ when you’re in best with your man is great, but using this kind of over-the-top dirty talk won’t get you ver
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I used to give blowjobs with gusto, but nowadays, I’m not a fan. In fact, most of the time, I just say no when guys ask me for one. As bad as it sounds, I’m pretty much over giving blowjobs to men.
Though it may shock many women to hear me say that, it’s the damn truth. I’m over it, and I’m not going to tolerate it anymore. I hate blowjobs.
Though I’d definitely give blowjobs to a guy who actually would meet my needs sexually and romantically, the fact is that, until I meet a guy worth a damn, I have a zero blowjob policy. Here’s why this might be a good route for you, too.
1. It’s a lot of work.
Dude, it’s called a blowjob because it’s a job. As in, it’s work. After about five good minutes of doing it,