Why Ditching Your BFFs For A Guy Is A Huge Mistake


Have you ever had a girl friend who completely forgot about you as soon as she got into a relationship … until they had their first big fight, that is?

Quality friends stand out from the crowd. They value one another and treat their friendships with the utmost respect, rather than getting jealous and catty when one of them gets a guy. Once you begin attracting quality friendships, you’ll start to soon attract quality men (and potential life partners) as well.

But how do you know if a man can live up to your expectations? That’s where quality gal pals come in.

Your best friends help you stay grounded in your values, gain clarity, keep healthy boundaries and perspectives (when love has a way of clouding perspective), and allow you to vent without blowing up at your partner

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The 3 HOTTEST Things You Can Say To A Guy (That Have Nothing To Do With Sex)

If you’ve ever said something to a guy that you regret, chances are you said too much.

The most attractive words to men are simple but incredibly effective.

It’s amazing how few words you need to say in order to get a guy to like you.

With this in mind, here are the two most attractive words you can say to a guy you like, plus one super-attractive phrase.

1. “Yes.”

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When he asks you to do something, say “yes”. When he asks you to go somewhere, say “yes”.

Men are attracted to the sound of “yes”.

Once he hears you’re happy to be with him, the bells go off. He starts imagining all the possibilities of what being with you could be like.

And yes, his mind will wander into what it would be l

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If Your Guy Does These 6 Things, He Isn’t In Love With You — He’s OBSESSED

I use the phrase “psychological demons disguised as love” when I talk about people who have disturbed romantic beliefs.

You may be surprised by the number of people who’ve felt trapped in unhealthy relationships at some point in their lives. In my work with clients, as well as in casual conversations, I’ve noticed certain behavioral patterns of toxic, emotionally abusive lovers.

I tell them that trouble brews when emotion trumps reason in relationships — when you listen to what your heart feels and not what your mind screams. This happens when something goes wrong in your relationship because the surge of love hormones drowns reason.

Consider these example:

11 Ways To Tell FOR SURE If A Guy Is Crazy About You

If you are in the early stages of dating a man and you are having trouble reading his thoughts about you, there are several ways to grade his behavior if it is not obvious to you. These might be clues to his interest or lack thereof. Here’s how to tell if a guy likes you and the reasons he may not be interested.

1. Is he responsive to texts, calls or emails?

Does he respond in a reasonable length of time to your communications?

2. Does he initiate contact with you?

Does he reach out to you without prompting on occasion?

3. Is he eager to see you?

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Does he express that he is looking forward to your next date or an event coming up in the future?

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9 Get-The-Girl Guarantees EVERY Guy Needs To Know

Back in the day — before women became more independent (thanks, women’s rights movement!) — gender roles were clear and well defined. For the most part, dating was easier: A man courted a woman and both of them knew the end goal if courtship went well … marriage.

Now that both genders are evolving socially, dating is far more complicated.

“Hanging out” and “hooking up” have replaced traditional courtship. Sex is no longer sacred and potential partners are far quicker to jump in the sack.

Some would consider this new direction advantageous. Yet despite this, many men and women seek dating advice that helps them find the meaningful connection they still yearn for (and haven’t found despite these “advancements” in modern dating).

Having that  meaningful conne

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9 SUREFIRE Signs He’s The Guy You Should Marry

Everyone and their moms have been asking you if you plan on tying the knot anytime soon. But even when the love, passion, and commitment are there, it can be hard to tell whether or not this is it.

Our advice? Look out for these nine signs — backed by experts and research — that you’re with someone who is marriage material:

1. He didn’t flip out when you divulged your credit card debt.

When you dropped a pretty substantial bomb, he didn’t shy away, freeze up, or get angry — he was rational and helpful. “It shows a level of maturity, acceptance, and openness,” says relationship expert Jenn Berman, Psy.D. And all of these are crucial factors in a significant other. “A partner is marriage material if he’s accepting of your struggles, such as your debt, and lets you know

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