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9 Reasons A Blunt Friend Is The BEST Friend You Can Have

Teekay May 23, 2017 No Comments


Here are nine reasons to love that blunt best friend even more than you already do.

1. They don’t hold back from delivering the truth.

My brother-in-law is famous (in some circles) for saying, “Facts are friendly.” But he’s wrong; facts are neutral and dispassionate. Your blunt friend should be able to deliver news sans theatrics.

2. They save you from fashion faux pas.

Are you red-green dichromatic and desperately need to know when your colors are clashing? Has your body shape altered significantly since you bought those sweet suede jeans? Do you periodically tuck your skirt back into your tights after using the toilet? Your blunt best friend will let you know that, whatever the case, you need to shape up it up, pronto.

3. Their observations can be witty and

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9 Lies Cheats Tell To Throw You Off Their Scent

Teekay May 15, 2017 No Comments

Perhaps you feel uneasy about what happens in your love’s life when you’re not around and you’re noticing some behavior that seems like signs he’s cheating:

    1. He doesn’t want you to see who he’s texting.
    2. He’s uber-territorial about his computer.
    3. He doesn’t want you just “dropping by” without calling first.
    4. He accuses you of snooping when you’re looking for the stapler on his desk.
    5. He cancels plans at the last minute for no good reason.
    6. He’s defensive and angry when you ask about his schedule.
    7. He has a new “friendship” with someone you haven’t met that and he won’t introduce you.

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9 Secrets To A Long-Lasting Relationship (That Won’t Fail)

Teekay May 10, 2017 No Comments

The closer a person is to us, the more we assume we can dump everything that goes wrong in life on them. There are expectations for them to clean up the mess.

It’s important to keep these next 9 points in mind:

1. Talk about the expectations you have around the relationship.

Feel each other out in the beginning, but then you need to discuss the hopes and beliefs you have regarding your relationship.

2. Have the difficult conversations about money and sex. 

Talking about the hopes and dreams you have around money and sex is vital, even if it makes

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9 CRAZY Things You NEED To Know About Masturbation

Teekay May 5, 2017 No Comments

Just like periods, female masturbation is one of those topics that are met with beet-red blushing, awkward silence or a fit of giggles. But the reality is that loving yourself really isn’t all that taboo. More women are getting touchy-feely, lovey-dovey with themselves than you probably realize.

So in honor of the female anatomy and all the amazing things about the female orgasm, we’re teaching you about the ladylike art of masturbation.

1. More women masturbate than you think. 

Okay, so maybe it’s not all day, every day, but this statistic is definitely not the perfect picture of modesty we tend to envision for ladyfolk: 92 percent of women masturbate regularly, the other 8 percent are probably lying.

2. Women are masturbating more often.

Moreover, 60 per

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9 Ways To Tell If He’s ONLY Interested In Hooking Up

Teekay May 2, 2017 No Comments

Women, forgive us. When we men are horny, we have a tendency to behave like dogs— pawing, panting, and begging like you’re wagging a bone in front of our faces.

But we’re not always horny. So for the other 98 percent of the time, you have every right to expect us to act like adult humans. Unless you and your guy have decided to stay in the booty-call zone, if you’re sleeping with him, he should at some point show interest in something other than getting you naked.

So, here are 9  signs he only wants a hookup.

1. He skimps on foreplay.

You’ve gone down on this guy how many times? And he never repays the favor? Well, it sounds like he’s getting screwed, and you’re getting screwed over.

2. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends.

If he really wanted to integrate

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9 Signs You’re DEFINITELY In A Soul-Sucking, Toxic Relationship

Teekay April 28, 2017 No Comments

We recently surveyed more than 100  Experts and discovered that 89 percent of them felt that half (or more!) of all people are in toxic relationships. So we asked them, “What are the most common, telltale signs of a toxic relationship?”

Topping their list of responses was “You spend more time fighting than enjoying each other,” with a whopping 82 percent of the vote. But that’s not the only sign of a toxic relationship. Here are nine more:

1. He seems hostile all the time.

Is he/she angry a lot of the time? If you feel you’re living with a lot of tension, feeling stressed and not able to express yourself the way you want, your relationship isn’t healthy for you. You want to feel the safety and securi

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9 Signs Your Relationship Is Headed For COLLAPSE

Teekay April 28, 2017 No Comments

Here are 9 warning signs your relationship is dying.

1. You argue about the same things.

And you do it over and over (and over) again and never seem to clear the air. You both feel like you’re the loser and that you often have to defend your position.

2. You feel criticized and put down.

This leaves you feeling less than “good enough.”

3. You have difficulty being vulnerable with your significant other.

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And when you do, your worst fears are actualized: you’re left regretting that you revealed your feelings and desires.

4. One or both of you put your children or others first. 

Therapist and author Andrew G. Marshall writes, “If you put your childre

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9 Get-The-Girl Guarantees EVERY Guy Needs To Know

Teekay April 27, 2017 No Comments

Back in the day — before women became more independent (thanks, women’s rights movement!) — gender roles were clear and well defined. For the most part, dating was easier: A man courted a woman and both of them knew the end goal if courtship went well … marriage.

Now that both genders are evolving socially, dating is far more complicated.

“Hanging out” and “hooking up” have replaced traditional courtship. Sex is no longer sacred and potential partners are far quicker to jump in the sack.

Some would consider this new direction advantageous. Yet despite this, many men and women seek dating advice that helps them find the meaningful connection they still yearn for (and haven’t found despite these “advancements” in modern dating).

Having that  meaningful conne

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9 SUREFIRE Signs He’s The Guy You Should Marry

Teekay April 26, 2017 No Comments

Everyone and their moms have been asking you if you plan on tying the knot anytime soon. But even when the love, passion, and commitment are there, it can be hard to tell whether or not this is it.

Our advice? Look out for these nine signs — backed by experts and research — that you’re with someone who is marriage material:

1. He didn’t flip out when you divulged your credit card debt.

When you dropped a pretty substantial bomb, he didn’t shy away, freeze up, or get angry — he was rational and helpful. “It shows a level of maturity, acceptance, and openness,” says relationship expert Jenn Berman, Psy.D. And all of these are crucial factors in a significant other. “A partner is marriage material if he’s accepting of your struggles, such as your debt, and lets you know

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The 9 Booty Call Commandments

Teekay April 23, 2017 No Comments


A booty call is a relationship and like all relationships, they have their own set of rules. Are you following these nine booty call “laws?”

 

Female Perspective

Thou Shall Keep It Clear

The best way to have fun with a booty call is to clearly define your relationship beforehand. Booty calls, by popular definition, include sex without strings. It’s late night satisfaction – the fast food of sex. So make sure you’re not emotionally attached before picking up that phone.

 

Thou Shall Be Experimental

Take

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