So how can YOU watch porn together and introduce it into your relationship to enhance your sex of your life without freaking your partner out (or freaking yourself out)? The following four steps make it simple:
The first step, for any woman who is thinking about spicing things up sexually, is to ask yourself what turns you on. What do you fantasize about? The answers to these questions will help you think about what kind of porn would be best suited for you. Bare in mind, seeing something your mind and seeing it acted out onscreen are different experiences so it’s OK if it takes some testing to see which ideas actually still arouse when acted out before your eyes.
1. Most of your thoughts about the person you are dating are physical or sexual in nature.
Of course, it is normal to daydream or fantasize about the new flame in your life. It’s normal, too, if many of those thoughts are sexual. But for those men and women who develop unhealthy lust, they know exactly what I mean when I say that, sometimes, the lust is too much and indicates that the relationship won’t last. Keep reading and you’ll see what I mean.
2. You need physical or sexual activity every single date.
When you start dating someone, there are times when it i
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Studies show that we tell ourselves more than 25 negative messages within a 3-hour period. That is more than one negative thought every 7 minutes!
It’s no wonder we lack self-confidence and balance in our lives. The way you feel about yourself reflects out into the world.
Changing your thinking can be a challenge. But remember, negative thinking is just a bad habit that can be broken. When you change the way you think about yourself, the world will react to you differently.
Here are four tips to help you get started on positive thinking:
1. Flip your thinking.
To stop the hamster wheel of negativity, you must course correct your thinking. Write down your top 3 negative thoughts. Underneath each thought, replace it with a m
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Here’s my ultra-simple, 4-step process on how to achieve your goals in dating:
1. Decide exactly what you want.
If you kinda-sorta know what you want, you’ll get kinda-sorta results. You might get close, but it won’t be satisfying and you’ll waste time.
That’s why it’s worth sitting down and deciding what you really, really want.
For attracting a relationship, don’t sabotage yourself by making your list so ridiculous that a mere mortal couldn’t measure up.
To make this easier, I stick with mostly INTERNAL traits. I like my men to be intelligent, kind, curious, humorous, and easy going. (Even though it seems obvious, for Law of Attraction purposes, add in single. The universe is literal.)
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As a dating coach, at least half of the emails I get from women over 40 are about the same question you’ve probably been asking since you were a teenager: “Does he like me?”
Often the answer is either, “If you have to ask, probably not,” or ” There’s no way to know. Give him time.”
So many of us start to stress about whether or not a guy is into us way too soon. After the first date, especially if we feel a connection, we’re wondering if he saw the same thing we did.
But most men are different than we are. Big surprise, right? They’re pretty good at staying in the information gathering stage until they see enough evidence that you might be “The One.”
That doesn’t mean they don’t make decisions soon. They do, but the decision is usually that he likes you and wants to see you again
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Before someone gets a driver’s license, they take a drivers ed course, practice with the help of an experienced driver, and closely study the rulebook. These are all valuable things to do, because driving without the necessary skills would make someone a menace on the roads, and a danger to themself and others.
The same thought process applies to getting married, as well. Before getting a marriage license, people must learn how to do the high-skills activity that partnership requires. Otherwise, couples are at risk for intense fighting, and launching a marriage that’s at risk from the outset.
Multiple research projects have clearly established that couples who learn marriage skills have the highest odds of enjoying a long-lasting and gratifying partnership. If you’re spendi
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Here’s why it’s OK to fight in front of kids:
1. When your kids watch you express anger in a healthy way, it gives them positive tools to deal with their own strong feelings.
Anger is definitely one of those emotions that get a bad rap in our society. Maybe you were told to “stuff it” as a child or that it’s “not nice” to get really mad.
It’d be great if all parents had the presence of mind to say “It’s OK that you’re angry, but it’s NOT OK to hit or scream at your brother/sister/friend. Take a time out and go punch your pillow instead.”
The next time you start to feel your blood pressure rising with your partner and little eyes are watching, you can do just that (punching a pillow is optional). But be sure to c
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When we find ourselves in a toxic relationship, it can seem like there’s no way out. Sometimes we even trick ourselves into believing this type of relationship is normal. But in order to be in a healthy, we need to learn how to get out of a toxic relationship first. Here’s how.
1. Admit that the relationship is toxic.
If you are experiencing a toxic relationship, then you likely move in and out of a state of denial about how unhealthy it truly is. At one moment you feel revulsion and at another, you are making excuses and justifying your partner’s intolerable behavior. Most will let certain issues go from time to time in longer-term romantic relationships. And it is important to be willing to accept your partner as they are. They likewise need to do the same for you.
On the other hand
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