Learning how to physically excite a man is surprisingly easy. There are just a few things you need to do.
Read on to learn the three ways you can get and keep his attention in the bedroom and how to get him hard. Trust me when I say he won’t stop thinking about you!
1. Learn how to touch him.
The first and most important thing to master if you want to give your man a hard-on is learning how to touch him in a sexy, sensual and suggestive way. Now I’m not saying that you should go straight for his crotch. I’m talking about how you touch his arms, back and chest.
Any lesson in life is a present in disguise, but when we talk about “Love Lessons”, we indeed learn most of them way too late.
Yes, love lessons often hit us hard and sometimes, they need to hit us more than once for us women to really grasp the truth behind it!
But if I had to talk to my children and grandchildren about “Love” and the lessons that this magnificent conception has taught me, here is what I would say.
1. “I learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. All the rest is up to them. I learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. And it’s not the end of the world.” — Roger Knapp
When you long for passion with your partner look inside instead. Do something that creates a deeper connection with you. When you do this, you will be amazed how it works magic on developing more intimacy with your partner. That is the first step to realize and never lose sight of.
2. Make sexual intimacy part of your schedule.
Have a talk with your partner and ask if he is willing to put some intentional effort into bringing more sexual intimacy back into your relationship.
Oxytocin has been described as the “cuddle” or “love hormone” and it’s released during sex. This hormone is powerful because when it’s released we automatically begin to attach to and trust the man responsible for triggering it. And oxytocin is more an issue for women than men, because estrogen promotes oxytocin, while testosterone inhibits it.
Almost everyone in the dating world readily admits that they have a type. Men might admit to liking blondes or girls who are tomboys; women might admit to liking men who are built or unforgivingly ambitious.
While most people are fine showcasing the exterior of their type to anyone who asks — for instance, “I only date guys who make me laugh” — they don’t showcase (or perhaps even notice) the inner demons of their type — i.e.e “I only date guys who make me cry”.
What this means is that men and women have a tendency to date the same type of person, even when it has led, over and over again, to an unhealthy relationship and ultimate heartbreak.
Perhaps you’ve seen it in yourself or your friends — Sally always goes for guys who are emotionally unavailable and Jeff only goes for
Learning how to attain the right mindset to attract your soulmate is a journey that can transform your life on top of its ultimate reward. That’s why it’s going to work! Many of us can get lost when figuring out what we really want in the first place.
Online dating is partly to blame for making dates so easily accessible.
There are too many choices to sort out. Therefore, we develop mental lists of what we want. To get back on track, we need to revisit the basics of love.
Here are 3 really important things about love that we need to re-align ourselves with.
1. Respect that love comes from the heart, not the logical mind.
What can you do right now to make your relationship more romantic? You could get your wife a diamond necklace. Or maybe you could buy her the Mercedes dream car she’s always wanted. Sounds like a good idea, right?
But let’s suppose that you haven’t asked your wife a question in five years, so you fail at Love Maps. Or while you are out on a double date with friends and your wife starts telling a story, you say, “That’s a good story, but you always tell it wrong. Let me tell it.” So you fail at showing her fondness and admiration.
Later that night she excitedly plops down next to you on the couch and shows you a picture of a romantic getaway in Italy.
“Isn’t this romantic?”
You respond, “Will you be quiet? I’m trying to read here!”
Sexual intimacy is deep and there are many ways women can feel uncomfortable.
Reasons why women are uncomfortable with sexual intimacy. The answer to this question is not simple.
Women are complex. Therefore, wouldn’t the answer to this question be complex? My intention is to simplify this answer as much as possible and bring more clarity to the dilemma many are faced with in the bedroom.
Women are just as sexual as men. We are all sexual beings. Sex and sexual expression is a normal and healthy part of being human. Sex is about the uniting of energies, a coming together.
Imagine being uncomfortable with sexual intimacy. That must be painful for a woman when she finds herself in such a situation, especially if it is with someone she dearly loves and care
When it comes to sex, we often get so caught up in orgasms and “goal oriented” sex that we miss the mark. We are so busy trying to impress each other with our sexual prowess that we forget the simple pleasures of good old-fashioned, HOT sex!
These three basic sexual positions will bring you back to that space of connection and romance that inevitably leads to deeper satisfaction.
Good old Missionary Position is one of the most romantic sex positions there is.
Face to face and heart to heart, it allows partners to intimately connect on a deeper and more meaningful level. The bodies are in alignment and easy entry into the vagina means you’re not angling for any acro
Moving from “like” to “love” is one of the most important transitions a couple can make. Unfortunately, it’s also a process that’s all too often misunderstood.
Many couples think that love is the same as lust, which equates love with the ooey-gooey excitement and breathless anticipation that usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship. Defining love this way categorizes it solely as a feeling, and the downside is that feelings come and go. If you don’t want your love to wax and wane with your emotions, you probably don’t want to define love merely as something you feel.
Our culture doesn’t give us a lot of other options in terms of shaping the definition of true love, though. If it’s not just a feeling, then what else is it?
Kissing is one of the best ways to turn a girl on – women love to kiss and it ignites their senses immediately. The same isn’t true for guys – they respond better to visual stimulation, such as porn. However, with a kiss, you allow a woman’s imagination to go wild, which will have her all over you in no time. Here’s how to kiss a girl and make her melt.
You don’t want to surprise a woman with a kiss when she’s not ready, because it can totally backfire and depending on the woman’s mood, it could ruin the whole evening. You want to feel the situation out first and make sure you’re fairly confident that she wants to be kissed before you actually head in for the smooch.
To find out if she’s really ready for you to make the next move, get in your girl’s space while flirting . Move in clos
Now, here are the three things that every man should know about female orgasm:
1. If it takes men two to five minutes of direct stimulation to have an orgasm, the average female needs about 20 minutes of direct stimulation.
So the moral of the story is that you should be patient, prime her up and try to hold off your own pleasure for as long as you can. This is especially true for women who have problems producing natural lubrication. If you want to reach the point of no return together, giver her at least a 20-minute head start.
Infidelity is the betrayal our society focuses on, but it is actually the subtle, unnoticed betrayals that truly ruin relationships. When partners do not choose each other day after day, trust and commitment erode away.
Partners may be aware of this disloyalty to each other, but dismiss it because it’s “not as bad as an affair.” This is false. Anything that violates a committed relationship’s contract of mutual trust, respect and protection can be disastrous.
Betrayals are founded on two building blocks: deception (not revealing your true needs to avoid conflict) and a yearning for emotional connection from outside the relationship.
Below are three betrayals that ruin relationships. Only by confronting and taking responsibility for them can couples reestablish their trust in
It should be obvious that there are basic differences between being in love, being attracted to someone, or being just plain obsessed. Sadly, that is not always the case. Many people find themselves in relationships that they may think are loving when, in reality, it may just be an unhealthy infatuation or even obsession.
Even when faced with the hard reality, it can be difficult to admit that you might just be more infatuated or obsessed than actually in love.
Here are three BIG signs that you might want to pay attention to:
The very concept of you “helping” implies that it’s her job and you are magnanimously giving of your precious time, which you could be using to upgrade your fantasy team or secretly view online porn, to help her do her job.
Don’t help. Just do it.
Take the attitude that they have in the military – if it’s walking, salute
One of the hardest social tasks of them all is taking an already established friend and turning that friend into your lover. We’ve all seen the movies and TV shows where this is a running theme and we’ve all fantasized about it being the case. I mean, what’s better than falling in love with your best friend?
When it works out, you get some of the best love stories ever told. Of course, it is not always worth the risk, if you work well together as friends and don’t want the same things out of life, then it’s generally best to keep your relationship merely friendly.
But, sometimes, everything seems to line up and you become ready to take the risk to take your friendship and try to turn it into a romantic relationship.
Here are some tips on how best to do it and get out of the friendzone: