Question (Anonymous):
I’m a girl of 20 years and I have 2 guys I’m dating now. D first is a Christian and is a distance relationship, he is a guy that does not spend, I don’t know when he has or does not and he does not open up. While d second guy is a Muslim, who eventually became a Christian when I met him, and I never forced him into, and he has done his baptism. He is caring and lovely, he 
usually tells me his problems and we solve them together, have known his family and he also know mine and he has really helped me financially. But my problem now is these:
(1) I don’t know who 2 go 4 among these 2 guys and
(2) I don’t know if d 2nd guy is pretending 2 become a Christian or not…
Please my brother I need your opinion on this because it’s really confusing.
Answer:
Dear sister, you don’t have a boyfriend yet oh because if you were truly in love with one, there would be no space in your heart for the other.
Break up with both of them and find someone you can really do without and someone that would actually make your wait worth it.
You also need to be sure you are the right partner before looking for a Mr Right so work on yourself. You can’t give what you don’t have.
Thanks