My whole life, I’ve dreamed of my fairy-tale wedding day when I wear a beautiful white dress that sweeps across the floor. The day that I get to cut a cake and get caught up in the blur of love, laughter, and smiles.
“Are you excited for your wedding night?”
That’s the question I’ve heard more often than I’ve wanted to. I’ve heard dozens of wedding-night stories (some in more detail than necessary), and even more wedding-night jokes. Even after getting engaged, I find that I’m thinking about the getaway car and the honeymoon more than the decorations or first dance. But there’s one problem:
I don’t want to have s*x on my wedding night
And no, it’s not because I’m scared, insecure, or uptight. I want to break down all my preconceived thoughts about the honeymoon and remember these three things: