3 Ways To Find Out FOR SURE If He’s The Right Guy For You


So, how do you know if the guy you are dating is a keeper? Here’s how to tell if he’s the right guy.

1. Know what you want in a relationship.

 

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Unfortunately, most of us don’t take the time to sit peacefully with ourselves to create a clear picture of what we want. We wait for love to just happen. Successful people know that we create our life and don’t leave it to chance.

Knowing what you want allows you to make a smart choice while experiencing the whirlwind of a new love. Knowing what you want can keep you grounded when decision-making can get a little hazy. Knowing what you want gives you the power to say no to what is not serving you.

Ask yourself these questions: If I ha

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4 Ways To Watch Porn TOGETHER Without Hurting Your Relationship


So how can YOU watch porn together and introduce it into your relationship to enhance your sex of your life without freaking your partner out (or freaking yourself out)? The following four steps make it simple:

1. Brainstorm.

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The first step, for any woman who is thinking about spicing things up sexually, is to ask yourself what turns you on. What do you fantasize about? The answers to these questions will help you think about what kind of porn would be best suited for you. Bare in mind, seeing something your mind and seeing it acted out onscreen are different experiences so it’s OK if it takes some testing to see which ideas actually still arouse when acted out before your eyes.

2. Ask you

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10 Ways To Compliment A Woman On A First Date

You are about to have your first date with the girl of your dreams. It took you months to woo her and she finally said yes.

So here is the big question — Should you or should you not compliment her? The answer is ABSOLUTELY.

Women like and anticipate compliments from their dates. HOWEVER, too many compliments make you sound needy. Not enough compliments make you selfish and thoughtless. So what is appropriate?

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1. Compliments must be authentic and real.

If you don’t mean it — don’t say it. Women are very perceptive and intuitive. They will know if your compliment is not coming from the right place.

2. Compliment effort, not a physical attribute.

Notice so

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3 Ways To Rekindle Sexual Intimacy When Your Relationship Gets Too Comfortable

Here are 3 tips to incorporate into your lifestyle to level up your intimate connection in your relationship:

1. Look within yourself — you might be part of the problem.

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When you long for passion with your partner look inside instead. Do something that creates a deeper connection with you. When you do this, you will be amazed how it works magic on developing more intimacy with your partner. That is the first step to realize and never lose sight of.

2. Make sexual intimacy part of your schedule.

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Have a talk with your partner and ask if he is willing to put some intentional effort into bringing more sexual intimacy back into your relationship.

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6 Ways To Seamlessly Handle Your In-Laws

So how do we navigate the waters of prior perspectives, beliefs, teachings, and past experiences without losing our own values, beliefs, and self-worth? How do we deal with in-laws without losing ourselves in the process?

1. Limit your expectations.

Expectations put pressure on reality to be perfect, and when reality doesn’t deliver we feel like failures. Therefore, it is important to let go of how things, events, or relationships should look like and do what is good for you.

Traditions have their place but when they don’t work for you and your circumstances, modify and incorporate them to the best of your ability.

2. Be curious and open-minded.

The best way to go about getting to know people is asking open-ended questions that start with wha

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4 Ways To Overcome A Toxic Relationship


When we find ourselves in a toxic relationship, it can seem like there’s no way out. Sometimes we even trick ourselves into believing this type of relationship is normal. But in order to be in a healthy, we need to learn how to get out of a toxic relationship first. Here’s how.

1. Admit that the relationship is toxic.

If you are experiencing a toxic relationship, then you likely move in and out of a state of denial about how unhealthy it truly is. At one moment you feel revulsion and at another, you are making excuses and justifying your partner’s intolerable behavior. Most will let certain issues go from time to time in longer-term romantic relationships. And it is important to be willing to accept your partner as they are. They likewise need to do the same for you.

On the other hand

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6 Ways To Pick Up The Pieces After A REALLY Terrible Breakup

The next six things are things you can do to get over a heartbreak, to get ready and prepare for a new start, no matter how scary that may sound at the moment:

1. Give yourself the time to grieve the relationship.

You lost someone who was important to you. Acknowledge that and don’t pretend it never happened. If you need to wallow for a bit then do that, just watch that you don’t drown in it.

Grieving is a natural method of saying goodbye to something we lost. Your relationship was important to you, otherwise you wouldn’t end up with heartbreak but with relief, so take y

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7 Ways To Heal From Sexual Trauma

This article, though brief, will succinctly describe some of the things I do and recommend to help people heal from sexual trauma.

Here are 7 keys to healing from sexual abuse and trauma:

1. Talk to people you trust.

Relationships are very important. Having loved ones or a friend or two to talk about the sexual trauma is a big part of healing. Talking gives the sexual trauma victim a chance to process the emotions and other parts of the memory but in addition, just the sense of feeling loved is very important for recovery.

Therapists such as myself also know that we need to develop a deep and trusting relationship with the client. The client needs to feel safe and as long as the client feels safe, the foundation is being laid for therapeutic healing.

2. Try EMDR Ther

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5 Ways To Get Your Power Back And End Emotional Abuse

Here are five steps to getting out from under his control:

1. Get your power back.


The quickest way to do this is to be willing to walk away from the relationship if need be. This enables you to move forward with the next steps from a place of power, not a place of fear.

 

2. Set limits on his criticism and emotional outbursts. 
Let your partner know that you are open to hearing his concerns about your actions and how they affect him, but will no longer engage in conversations that attack who you are as a person.

3. Consider your partner’s concerns.


What a

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3 Ways To Stop Attracting Losers So You Can FINALLY Meet A Keeper

Almost everyone in the dating world readily admits that they have a type. Men might admit to liking blondes or girls who are tomboys; women might admit to liking men who are built or unforgivingly ambitious.

While most people are fine showcasing the exterior of their type to anyone who asks — for instance, “I only date guys who make me laugh” — they don’t showcase (or perhaps even notice) the inner demons of their type — i.e.e “I only date guys who make me cry”.

What this means is that men and women have a tendency to date the same type of person, even when it has led, over and over again, to an unhealthy relationship and ultimate heartbreak.

Perhaps you’ve seen it in yourself or your friends — Sally always goes for guys who are emotionally unavailable and Jeff only goes for

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6 Ways To Seamlessly Handle Your In-Laws (Without Losing Yourself)


Meeting new people, switch workplaces, move out to a different location, and dealing with an illness are just a couple of examples of the changes that requires integration and blending in.

In all my years of coaching, I haven’t met a client who told me that they never experienced change in their life.

Often, it is more about them wanting to make a change (for example, creating more business or finding a partner) or there are so many changes happening all at once and they want some help with dealing with them.
The most complex change is going from being single, where you are free to do what you want, to becoming part of a couple, where you have to negotiate commitment and accountability with and towards each other.

If that’s not complicated enough, there’s the extended family on BOTH sides who wants t

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5 Sexy (Yet Subtle) Ways To Turn Your Man ALL The Way On


If you really want to learn how to arouse your man and get him in the mood for amazing sex, then you need to stimulate both his body AND his mind. You’ll be glad to know that doing this is not just a case of being overtly sexual.

I’m going to show you some really subtle, fun and easy things you can do to turn him on and arouse him both mentally and physically.

1. Talking Dirty

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Many people come to me wanting to learn how to talk dirty. They usually think that the best type of dirty talk is using the most outrageous, over-sexualized, nasty lines.

This is not really a great idea. Yes, being really ‘out there‘ when you’re in best with your man is great, but using this kind of over-the-top dirty talk won’t get you ver

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11 Ways To Tell FOR SURE If A Guy Is Crazy About You

If you are in the early stages of dating a man and you are having trouble reading his thoughts about you, there are several ways to grade his behavior if it is not obvious to you. These might be clues to his interest or lack thereof. Here’s how to tell if a guy likes you and the reasons he may not be interested.

1. Is he responsive to texts, calls or emails?

Does he respond in a reasonable length of time to your communications?

2. Does he initiate contact with you?

Does he reach out to you without prompting on occasion?

3. Is he eager to see you?

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Does he express that he is looking forward to your next date or an event coming up in the future?

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9 Ways To Tell If He’s ONLY Interested In Hooking Up

Women, forgive us. When we men are horny, we have a tendency to behave like dogs— pawing, panting, and begging like you’re wagging a bone in front of our faces.

But we’re not always horny. So for the other 98 percent of the time, you have every right to expect us to act like adult humans. Unless you and your guy have decided to stay in the booty-call zone, if you’re sleeping with him, he should at some point show interest in something other than getting you naked.

So, here are 9  signs he only wants a hookup.

1. He skimps on foreplay.

You’ve gone down on this guy how many times? And he never repays the favor? Well, it sounds like he’s getting screwed, and you’re getting screwed over.

2. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends.

If he really wanted to integrate

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5 Sexy (Yet Subtle) Ways To Turn Your Man ALL The Way On

If you really want to learn how to arouse your man and get him in the mood for amazing sex, then you need to stimulate both his body AND his mind. You’ll be glad to know that doing this is not just a case of being overtly sexual.

I’m going to show you some really subtle, fun and easy things you can do to turn him on and arouse him both mentally and physically.

1. Talking Dirty

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Many people come to me wanting to learn how to talk dirty. They usually think that the best type of dirty talk is using the most outrageous, over-sexualized, nasty lines.

This is not really a great idea. Yes, being really ‘out there‘ when you’re in best with your man is great, but using this kind of over-the-top dirty talk won’t get you ver

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3 Sneaky Ways To Become MORE Than Just Friends With Him

One of the hardest social tasks of them all is taking an already established friend and turning that friend into your lover. We’ve all seen the movies and TV shows where this is a running theme and we’ve all fantasized about it being the case. I mean, what’s better than falling in love with your best friend?

When it works out, you get some of the best love stories ever told. Of course, it is not always worth the risk, if you work well together as friends and don’t want the same things out of life, then it’s generally best to keep your relationship merely friendly.

But, sometimes, everything seems to line up and you become ready to take the risk to take your friendship and try to turn it into a romantic relationship.

Here are some tips on how best to do it and get out of the friendzone:

1. Be rational, BUT not too rational. 

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Love isn’t ever completely rational. So, in this in

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3 Ways To Rekindle Sexual Intimacy When Your Relationship Gets Too Comfortable

You and your man have been together for a while and are deeply bonded. There is a lot of love and you genuinely care for each other. You have been through good times and bad times and are still together. The problem is, sexual intimacy is at an all-time low.

How to rekindle sexual intimacy, especially in a sexless marriage, is a question you are both asking yourself silently in your mind as you sit on the couch together eating ice cream, watching TV, night after night (or something complacently similar).

What couple, that has been together for any length of time, doesn’t end up asking, “What happened to our sexual intimacy?” You are not the only one. Don’t feel bad if this is happening to you.

Get out of your comfort zone and commit to change. It is being in too much comfort in the relationship

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5 Ways To Know For SURE If You’re In Love With A Crazy Person


I hear a lot of dating stories, specifically from men, where they say they fell in love with someone and months or even years later, they found out they were dating a complete crazy person.

They got bamboozled.

Their partner pretended to be a certain way to catch them and then revealed their true self; a heartless, narcissistic b*tch/a**hole and now they’re stuck there asking themselves, “Who the hell are you and what did I get myself into?”

You want to be sympathetic towards these folks because they were blinded by love, but I don’t feel bad for them.

I just think they weren’t paying attention.

Whether you’re together a few months or years, things happen in people’s lives that will show you their character.

They will either shine or reveal themselves to be who they really are.

When t

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