The REAL Reason Why Men Suddenly Disappear On You

When you first met him, he could do no wrong. Then he became your boyfriend, or at the very least, was on his way to becoming your boyfriend.

Unfortunately, along with this new title comes the real reason why he might suddenly disappear on you.

Here are 3 real reasons why men disappear and what you can do to ensure he comes back to you:

1. He feels obligated to be with you.

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To put it simply, having an obligation is not attractive.

When a man feels obligated to spend some time you, have sex with you, or give you affection because he’s your boyfriend and should be doing those things, he’s on the way to disappearing.

Is there anything wrong with wanting those things? Of course

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These 7 Damaging Thoughts Are The Reason You Can’t Find Love

Can you relate to any of these statements? 

 

1.  “I’m too busy.” 

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This is so common that it had to make the list at number one. You use this as an excuse not to work on love and it’s an easy thing to toss out there when you need to justify your perpetual singledom. But, are you really too busy? More than likely, the answer is no. How do you expect to maintain a relationship when you have this mindset?