In a world where chivalry and courtship seem to be the stuff of history books, and men complain that they shouldn’t have to pay for dinner if women want equality — it is plain to see that we need to bring some dignity back to dating and relationships.
My belief is that there are so many mixed messages about what women want in a relationship, that we, as guys, can easily get confused. Does she want her independence? Does she want to be courted? Will she be offended if you pick up the whole bill? But then if you don’t, you never get that second date. What gives?
The truth is, gentlemen, that the basic fundamentals of courtship have remained the same over time. The idea is to set yourself apart by showing a woman that you are genuinely interested in her, and are
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Should you date someone who is divorced? Does it mean the person can’t commit or trashes relationships?
It’s possible that those things are true, but let’s look on the positive side. What are the perks of people who have already been through the mill?
1. Divorced people are no longer living in fantasy land.
A person who is divorced may have made some mistakes, but he or she’s usually got a more realistic picture of what it will take to have a successful relationship.
2. A prior marriage is evidence that your date can commit.
As long as the marriage lasted for a while before the divorce, it’s proof that your date can make a commitment and follow through.