Stop Hating The Friendzone – Here Are 6 Damn Good Reasons To Embrace It


It’s considered one of the biggest perils of modern heterosexual dating: You, a man, ending up in the “friendzone.” As most of us know, the friendzone is a place that romantic intentions go to die: It’s an elephant graveyard where men who aren’t quite good enough to make the cut as boyfriends are politely relegated to rot in the terrain of friendship, while the object of your affection is off cavorting with other, better candidates.

At least, that’s the depressing way of looking at it. In reality, though, it’s a blessing in disguise. Here are six reasons why:

1. Friendship Is Precious And Nothing To Be Scoffed At

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6 Life-Changing Facts About Masturbation That’ll Make You Crave Alone Time NOW

Masturbation.

It’s a topic that is fraught with confusion.

Somewhere down the line, men and women alike received mixed messages about touching their genitals.

We may have been caught giving ourselves pleasure, or caught playing doctor with a friend.

Many women have been “scared off” or shamed for masturbating, and still feel a wee guilty when they do.

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And for men, one of the primary causes of premature ejaculation is fast, furtive masturbation … they’ve trained themselves to “come too fast.”

I’d like to clear up some of the confusion about masturbation for you with a few important facts.

Because self-love is good love!

1. First and foremost, I want you to know that masturbation is completely natural.<

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6 Signs You Were Raised In A Dysfunctional Family

Here are 6 signs that you were raised in a dysfunctional family:

1. You spend too much time trying to please others.

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You feel guilty about doing things for yourself. You feel guilty getting angry at people whom you think you should not be. And you feel guilty when others are upset.

This is caused by your erroneous thinking that you are responsible for other people’s feelings. You were trained, in essence, to do what is impossible to do to make others feel happy.

2. You tend to pick people that have trouble reciprocating.

You constantly feel that the relationship is very uneven. Of course, due to your false sense of responsibility and guilt, you stay in these uneven relationships for too l

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6 BIG Relationship Perks Of Dating Someone Who’s Already Been Divorced

Should you date someone who is divorced? Does it mean the person can’t commit or trashes relationships?

It’s possible that those things are true, but let’s look on the positive side. What are the perks of people who have already been through the mill?

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1. Divorced people are no longer living in fantasy land.

A person who is divorced may have made some mistakes, but he or she’s usually got a more realistic picture of what it will take to have a successful relationship.

2. A prior marriage is evidence that your date can commit.

As long as the marriage lasted for a while before the divorce, it’s proof that your date can make a commitment and follow through.

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